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Joel Shaul, LCSW
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La caja de diálogos: Un método para ayudar a los niños con autismo a conversar
Autism According to YouTube: Discovering, Enjoying and Using Videos Created by People with Autism
The amazing world of YouTube videos made by people on the autism spectrum
Please watch the video below, made by a boy with Asperger’s next to his bunk bed. Then come back to this blog, and check out my links to several dozen more terrific videos made by young people on the autism spectrum on topics such as relationships, eye contact, stimming, emotions, and more.
Why you should use YouTube videos made by people with autism for counseling, teaching and your own learning
People with autism are often the best source of information about their own issues and how to deal with them. When looking for authoritative information on what it is like to be autistic, and how to cope, it often makes sense to “ask an Aspie.”
People with autism on YouTube provide good role models for our students and clients. If you are a teacher, speech pathologist, counselor or mental health professional working with young people on the autism spectrum, you are constantly trying to motivate and inspire your students and clients. Many children and teens with ASD are isolated and demoralized. The right YouTube video can really help children with high functioning autism to talk about themselves and work on problems.
Showing YouTube videos in your school or office – or at home, if you are a parent using these videos – is easy and foolproof. In another blog, I provide simple instructions for downloading YouTube videos to your own computer and for making the playback loud enough for a group or a class to hear easily. To learn about this, FOLLOW THIS LINK HERE.
The organization of the YouTube links below
I have organized my links to YouTube videos into a number of somewhat arbitrary categories. I will be adding to this list periodically. If you are aware of particularly useful YouTube videos which I have not listed, or if you have found ways to use YouTube videos which I have not described here, I would be grateful if you could please email me at info [at] AutismTeachingStrategies [dot] com.
Please be aware that YouTube url links can change as the YouTube sites hosting the videos move the videos or take them down altogether. Kindly email me if you discover that a link no longer works.
Autism Self Description
These videos can be used to help children on the spectrum to learn about their diagnosis and to help them establish a connection with the worldwide community of people with autism.
Alex’s video has gotten 1.4 million views, more than any other autism self-help video I am aware of. He talks about Asperger’s, his particular interests, auditory sensitivity, feelings of isolation, learning disabilities, and his sense of satisfaction about his conditon.
This very short and very funny animation is the first in a series of animations created by a group of teenagers with Asperger’s in England.
This computer animated feature was created by Bob Greenwade, and adult on the autism spectrum. It provides some good information about people with Asperger’s and pokes good-natured fun at some of their quirks.
I really like this young man’s candid and humble description of his childhood experiences with social skills training in public schools and clinical settings.
This young woman provides a positive perspective. On her YouTube channel, you can also view a video of her interviewing renowned Asperger’s expert Tony Attwood.
Autism and Communication
The creators of these videos make interesting comments about their difficulties with conversation
Jonah has made a number of good videos and I provide links to a couple others below. He has very clear recollections of when he was in kindergarten and how his obsessions (his own term) with airplanes distracted him in social situations.
This 14-year-old boy describes his growing realization that others are put off by his style of speaking, which seems linked to his intense interests outside the realm of typical youth culture.
This computer animation, just 30 seconds long, captures the feelings of frustration and isolation at trying to make conversation in a crowded room.
In this second video by Aspie Bob Greenwade, he pokes fun at the tendency of individuals on the spectrum to interrupt and gratuitously correct others in conversation.
Autism and Eye Contact
A great many individuals with autism have posted YouTube videos on the topic of eye contact. Watching them has been a very important learning experience for me. Here are three of my favorite ones.
Matthew Ryan Morin, whose YouTube videos are included also in the Bullying section below, makes articulate comments about eye contact and how he has worked on it.
Arman Khodaie, who has posted dozens of YouTube self-help videos, provides a fascinating analysis of his eye contact challenges and how he has coped with them. He describes being punished by his grandmother for deficient eye contact when he was a child. Mr. Khodaie wears nonprescription glasses because it helps his eyes feel less vulnerable in social situations.
Autism and Sensory Sensitivity
If you are a neurotypical person like me, these videos might really increase your appreciation for how autistic people experience extremes of sound, taste and other senses.
This short video shows a four-year-old on the autism spectrum reacting to the noise in a gym class.
This very short animation, created by the same teens on the spectrum who created the claymation feature I listed earlier in this blog, really opened my eyes into how light and sound is experienced by individuals with autism.
This is another very short feature by the Biomation teens. The narrator describes how she can easily become disgusted when foods are served together. After following this link, you need to forward through a few others in the series to get to this one.
In this video, this young man describes how he needs to wear industrial grade ear protection when he indulges his passion, train watching. In the section below on Fascinations, I provide a link to his YouTube channel where he has posted hundreds of videos of trains.
Autism and Stimming (self-stimulation)
The internet and YouTube provide a forum where autistic people trade information about stimming and offer people without autism a window into their world.
In this video, Matthew provides a demonstration of stimming, which he edited into a montage and set the music of “I like to move it, move it.”
Anabelle has a YouTube channel called “Way to Stim Wednesday.” Each Wednesday, she posted a new video of herself stimming in a different way.
Arman Khodaie has made several videos about stimming. In this one, he assimilates feedback he has received from others who have written him comments. This demonstrates a common practice on YouTube, utilized often by individuals with autism who post videos – dialogue and information exchange, often occurring through “response videos.”
Autism and Anxiety
Many people with autism post videos on this topic. They describe their experiences and offer and solicit advice.
This is Jonah again, the same teenager who made the video under Communication above, talks about how anxiety affects him.
Jonah continues talking about upsetting emotions in this video. This is an excellent video to show to young people who are learning about cognitive behavioral therapy. Jonah has a sound grasp of the link between automatic negative thoughts and anxiety.
Dealing with Bullying
I only have several videos in this series and I am looking for more of them.
Watch this one all the way through. By all means do not miss the part where he acts out the parts of a bully and a mean girl who taunted him about his tics.
This is another very short animation in the Biomation series I cited above. Fast forward through several videos to get to this one.
Autism and Dating / Romantic Relationships
People with autism have posted hundreds of videos on these topics
Laura Paxton provides a clear explanation about the pitfalls of being too persistent in a relationship. In one part of the video, she uses two stuffed animals to demonstrate the risks of being too “clingy.”
Arman Khodaie has posted a number of videos on this topic directed to both males and females on the autism spectrum.
Fascinations and Fantasy
The first several videos deal with the general issue of preferred, fixated interests affecting people with autism. I follow this with a couple videos dealing with fantasy enthrallment, which is a particular interest of mine.
This young man on the autism spectrum, whose video about auditory / light sensitivity I featured earlier in this blog, has posted multitudes of train videos on YouTube.
Watch this video through to the part where he gives a tour of his home and shows us the accessories of his various unusual hobbies.
Tyler McNamer provides abundant insights into how he, and many other people with autism, can be affected by strong involvement in imagination.
This man’s videos receive many views and comments from other people on the autism spectrum. In this video, he reflects on how fantasy and imagination affected him at an earlier age.
Update 1-14-2022: I have free materials on my site on managing fantasy and pretend issues. To access them click HERE.
I hope you enjoy and appreciate these people’s YouTube videos.
Joel Shaul, LCSW
Your comments on these resources are most welcome, and often helpful. Click HERE to send an email.
Spanish translations of Autism Teaching Strategies resources
You can access these materials in Spanish by following THIS LINK.
Here are a few screen-shots below.
The picture below shows the Spanish version of a resource I posted online designed to help children with ASD to explore their issues with isolation.
The picture below shows a small portion of a the Spanish version of materials I created on dealing with teasing and bullying.
I have a number of Spanish translated resources on my website.
Joel Shaul, LCSW
Cognitive-behavioral therapy teaching materials for children with high functioning autism: Many engaging activities with free downloads
Cognitive-behavioral therapy and children with high functioning autism
I have posted an extensive amount of free cognitive behavioral therapy materials on the website. The following post is to summarize them in one place and provide more convenient links to each of them.
Many are available in screen-based / teletherapy versions. Some are available in translations.
To be connected with each free resource, click on the IMAGE.
CBT videos for children
If you are just beginning to explain the basics of CBT, I really recommend you watch the first video in this series. It is short, very visual, and clear. The subsequent videos focus on specific categories of automatic negative thoughts, which I refer to as Poison Thoughts.
Here is a concise guide to using the CBT Videos which you should find helpful.
CBT Cards to use with the 8 CBT Videos
Download and cut these out. They are very handy to use while viewing the 8 CBT Videos. The download includes suggestions on different ways to use them.
CBT Thought Bubbles, printable and screen-based / teletherapy versions
These have many uses. You can print them and leave them lying around during sessions. You can put them on the wall. The screen-based version is very useful for groups or for teletherapy.
CBT Worksheets for children
I created these years ago because all the CBT worksheets I could find lacked visual elements and required children to write too small. The teletherapy versions of these are very useful, especially the Boom Cards version.
The CBT Worksheets are available in several translations.
Mint New Thoughts CBT Activity
This is a CBT extension activity. You explain to children how they can create new thoughts to replace flawed ones, just like they do when printing currency. The Boom Cards version of this is particularly good and very useful in teletherapy.
DIY CBT Problem & Solution Cards
In PowerPoint, using my prepared template, text boxes and drag-and-drop images, you quickly create these cards. It’s easy enough to do with the child present and it works well in teletherapy, too.
Filter the Upsetting Thoughts Activity
In this hands-on project, you print out dozens of pre-written paper strips showing a wide variety of thoughts that a person might have when they are feeling upset. The child sorts these into categories based on whether they are useful statements or unfiltered thoughts turned into words that may make things worse.
The teletherapy version works the same way, except you drag the statements around a PowerPoint screen to sort them.
Worry Cards
These problem-solving cards describe ten young people, each experiencing anxiety in a different way.
Rigidity Flexibility Cards
These problem exploration cards explore multiple manifestations of rigidity in a number of hypothetical children.
Emotion Thermometers
These large format emotion thermometers include blanks for children to customize them with words and drawings.
CBT Paper Fortune Tellers
These three paper fortune tellers explore anxiety and black and white thinking.
This illustrated tutorial explores how to take the individual child’s abilities, preferences and temperament into account when planning CBT interventions with children. This includes clickable links to resources, including the one shown in the picture above.
Joel Shaul, LCSW
Helping teen boys with high functioning autism to relate to girls: Card game activity and social skills teaching materials
To download and print this resource, click here:
Relating to Girls Panels & Cards
To download the PowerPoint version of this resource (to project or show on computer), click here:
Relating to Girls, PowerPoint Version
This resource is also available in Polish.
This resource is also available in German.
Boys with autism face special challenges in understanding and relating to girls
In this blog post, I offer some basic background on issues affecting teenage boys on the autism spectrum pertaining to their relationships with girls, and then I provide some social skills teaching materials for mental health professionals, teachers and speech-language pathologists to use in their work.
Problem 1: Difficulties understanding the interests and perspectives of girls and women
Children on the autism spectrum have challenges with “theory of mind,” that is, understanding what other people might be thinking. This presents particular problems when a boy with high functioning autism is dealing with individuals of the opposite gender. (It is hard enough, after all, for males who do not have autism).
Problem 2: Difficulties with verbal and nonverbal elements of communication
With regard to nonverbal communication, when interacting with girls, boys on the autism spectrum have a tendency to make mistakes with eye contact and personal space. Eye contact errors fall into two categories. First, many boys with high functioning autism find it very difficult to look into the eyes of other people when they are talking. This can cause them a lot of anxiety and break their concentration. Second, boys who are attracted to girls might not understand the negative social impact of staring at girls in a conspicuous manner. Personal space errors can occur when a boy on the autism spectrum gets too close to a girl or touches her in an unwanted manner.
With respect to verbal communication, boys with high functioning autism face many challenges when communicating with girls. They might wish to compliment a girl, but they may not understand the unwritten social rules about bluntly complimenting a girl’s attractive features. Boys on the spectrum might find it overwhelmingly difficult to find common ground in conversation with a girls, and boys might consequently fall back on their preferred interests in conversation.
Problem 3: Difficulties with appearance and hygiene
Right around the time that boys on the autism spectrum may be first feeling attraction to girls, they are in the process of taking over numerous self-care tasks from their parents. Consequently, many teenage boys with ASD have problems with hygiene, attire and grooming. They may have dirty and unkempt hair. They may bathe infrequently or inadequately. Likewise, they often neglect dental hygiene. They may select clothing based on comfort or habit rather than fashion. All of these problems present enormous liabilities when relating to young females, who, compared to young males, are more inclined to be aware of hygiene, smell and appearance.
Problem 4: Fundamental challenges finding compatible romantic partners
Autism affects far more males than females. This, unfortunately, puts young men on the autism spectrum at a statistical disadvantage. Males with autism do, of course, often date and marry females who are not on the spectrum. However, young men with autism often have a special affinity for young women on the spectrum – but relatively few of these females with ASD are out there.
A note about young gay people on the spectrum:
In our work with young men with autism, we of course come into contact with males who are attracted to males. Please be aware that you can modify the materials below to address the needs of this population. And, by the way, there is a terrific, short autobiography by a man with Asperger’s who happens to be gay – Born on a Blue Day by Daniel Tammett.
How to use the free materials provided in this post:
The image below shows the teaching panels as they might appear if you placed them on the wall in a bulletin board fashion. You could also bind them together to create a simple, nine-page book.
The image below shows several of the cards. You can use these in individual, group or small class-size interventions. Here are some suggestions. First, you could arrange the cards into three piles by card type. Then, you could, by roll of dice, have participants pick from one of of three card types (roll of 1 or 2, or 3 or 4, or 5 or 6 determines which card is selected). Alternatively, shuffle the cards and have participants select them an random.
About role playing in the “Act it out” cards:
The majority of guidance counselors, psychotherapists, special education teachers and speech-language pathologists are females. Working with boys who are trying to learn to relate to girls, you have certain practical advantages if you are female. This allows you to play the role of the “girl” in the role plays I have set up in the “Act it out” cards.
About the “Fix the Thought” cards:
Here is a suggestion on how to use these cards. Introduce these cards by saying something like this: “Certain thoughts and beliefs can lead to all kinds of upsetting emotions and make these bad feelings much worse. If you can notice them and fight them, you can feel less upset.” Then, you, the adult, can try holding the card over your head and say, “Let’s pretend I am a person having this thought.” Then, you act out the role of someone having the thought, and ask the participants to give you advice and tell you what better alternative thoughts you might try.
I wish you well in your work helping boys on the autism spectrum to understand and relate to females.
Joel Shaul, LCSW
FYI: A great activity to go with this resource:
Using girl magazines and other media to help boys with ASD learn about girls
Don’t miss these other free social & emotional skills games, worksheets and teaching / therapy resources for children & teens with ASD:
Free social skills games & activities, social interaction skills for kids with ASD
Free social skills games & activities, communication / conversation skills for kids with ASD
Free social skills games & activities, emotional regulation skills for kids with ASD
Your comments on these resources are most welcome, and often helpful. Click HERE to send an email.
CBT Emotion Worksheets: Links to each worksheet series
Here are links to my free CBT worksheets, some explanations on how to use them, and suggestions on how to use the worksheets in combination with other free child therapy resources on the website.
7 cognitive behavioral therapy worksheets with other free CBT resources
Telehealth Computer Based CBT Worksheets Download
In Polish: CBT Karty Pracy
In Albanian: Shtatë Materiale të thjeshta pune CBT
In Spanish: 7 hojas de trabajo de Terapia Cognitivo-Conductual
In German: 7 Arbeitsblätter zur kognitiven Verhaltenstherapie für Kinder
In Hebrew: 7 CBT Worksheets for Children
Boom Card Version of CBT Worksheets
CBT was originally designed for educated adults. Before attempting to use any elements of CBT with young people, it is important to simplify it as much as possible and to make it appealing. I really recommend you consider starting out by viewing this six-minute CBT video which was designed for ~ age 7 through late teens.
The first page is help identify the problem emotion. It may be necessary to take this step slowly and carefully. I have several free therapy resources that can be helpful, 21 Anime Emotion Cards and Emotion Cards.
Identifying automatic negative thoughts, which I call “poison thoughts” in my own work, is challenging to learn, even for many adults. But it is surprising how many children can get really good at it. To practice it, I suggest you return to the series of 8 Simple CBT Videos, or access the free download of 48 Cognitive Distortion Thought Bubbles (printable or screen-based version). For additional, game-like incentives to identify “poison thoughts,” you can try these free Poison Thought Cards or using Mr. Yuk stickers.
Page 3 is to help the young person to focus carefully on their specific words and actions during their episode of distress. There are two downloadable resources that help with this (both available in both printable and screen-based versions), Filter the Upsetting Thoughts & Words and the What I Should Have Done Different worksheet.
Depending on the child, gaining understanding of bodily manifestations of stress can be significant or the most important part of the work. Shown in the picture are two components of the free download of the Emotion Thermometer.
Correcting cognitive distortions, or “creating Antidote Thoughts,” is the work carried out on page 5. Two of my free resources are helpful with this step, 48 Cognitive Distortion Thought Bubbles and the Mint the New Thoughts Kit. Both are available in both printable and screen-based versions.
Once the child has explored alternative ways of thinking, we move on to alternative actions and words. A resource to consider for increasing awareness of different ways to behave is Self-Control Problem Fixer.
The final CBT worksheet is a companion to page 4. Displayed here as a suggested related activity is the same Emotion Thermometer shown on page 4.
Everyone has different patterns of cognitive distortions. On the website is a super easy drag-and-drop PowerPoint kit for custom designing CBT cards like these two examples shown.
Additional suggestions for using the CBT worksheets
*It is not a requirement that children draw the face on page 1. Some kids find it helpful, others not.
*Pay close attention to whether the child wants to do their own writing, or if they would prefer that you write as they dictate. There is no downside to the adult actually doing the writing (or the typing in the screen-based versions).
*There is quite often no need to go through each worksheet in the series. I recommend in fact that you don’t put all the worksheets down in front of the child all at once. Get out the worksheets one at a time, and be prepared at any time to switch away from the worksheets into purely spoken exchange, watching a video, or focusing more on one of the other downloads.
*There are many ways to tailor CBT to the needs of children and the learning styles of individual children. Here is an illustrated review of factors to consider when doing CBT with kids.
I wish you success incorporating CBT resources and concepts into your own work with children.
Joel Shaul
The filled-out CBT worksheets shown below I created myself to represent a few typical problems you might encounter doing CBT work.
Your comments on these resources are most welcome, and often helpful. Click HERE to send an email.
CBT Children’s Emotion Worksheet Series: 7 Worksheets for Dealing with Upsetting Emotions
Here are links to my free CBT worksheets, some explanations on how to use them, and suggestions on how to use the worksheets in combination with other free child therapy resources on the website.
Telehealth Computer Based CBT Worksheets Download
In Polish: CBT Karty Pracy
In Spanish: 7 hojas de trabajo de Terapia Cognitivo-Conductual
In Albanian: Shtatë Materiale të thjeshta pune CBT
In German: 7 Arbeitsblätter zur kognitiven Verhaltenstherapie für Kinder
CBT was originally designed for educated adults. Before attempting to use any elements of CBT with young people, it is important to simplify it as much as possible and to make it appealing. I really recommend you consider starting out by viewing this six-minute CBT video which was designed for ~ age 7 through late teens.
The first page is help identify the problem emotion. It may be necessary to take this step slowly and carefully. I have several free therapy resources that can be helpful, 21 Anime Emotion Cards and Emotion Cards.
Identifying automatic negative thoughts, which I call “poison thoughts” in my own work, is challenging to learn, even for many adults. But it is surprising how many children can get really good at it. To practice it, I suggest you return to the series of 8 Simple CBT Videos, or access the free download of 48 Cognitive Distortion Thought Bubbles (printable or screen-based version).
Page 3 is to help the young person to focus carefully on their specific words and actions during their episode of distress. There are two downloadable resources that help with this (both available in both printable and screen-based versions), Filter the Upsetting Thoughts & Words and the What I Should Have Done Different worksheet.
Depending on the child, gaining understanding of bodily manifestations of stress can be significant or the most important part of the work. Shown in the picture are two components of the free download of the Emotion Thermometer.
Correcting cognitive distortions, or “creating Antidote Thoughts,” is the work carried out on page 5. Two of my free resources are helpful with this step, 48 Cognitive Distortion Thought Bubbles and the Mint the New Thoughts Kit. Both are available in both printable and screen-based versions.
Once the child has explored alternative ways of thinking, we move on to alternative actions and words. A resource to consider for increasing awareness of different ways to behave is Self-Control Problem Fixer.
The final CBT worksheet is a companion to page 4. Displayed here as a suggested related activity is the same Emotion Thermometer shown on page 4.
Additional suggestions for using the CBT worksheets
*It is not required for children to draw the face on page 1. Some kids find it helpful, others not.
*Pay close attention to whether the child wants to do their own writing, or if they would prefer that you write as they dictate. There is no downside to the adult actually doing the writing (or the typing in the screen-based versions).
*There is quite often no need to go through each worksheet in the series. I recommend in fact that you don’t put all the worksheets down in front of the child all at once. Get out the worksheets one at a time, and be prepared at any time to switch away from the worksheets into purely spoken exchange, watching a video, or focusing more on one of the other downloads.
*There are many ways to tailor CBT to the needs of children and the learning styles of individual children. Here is an illustrated review of factors to consider when doing CBT with kids.
I wish you success incorporating CBT resources and concepts into your own work with children.
Joel Shaul
The filled-out CBT worksheets I created and displayed below represent some typical problems you might encounter in CBT work with children.
CBT Children’s Emotion Worksheet Series: 7 Worksheets for Dealing with Disappointment
CBT Children’s Emotion Worksheet Series: 7 Worksheets for Dealing with Sadness
CBT Children’s Emotion Worksheet Series: 7 Worksheets for Dealing with Anxiety
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Anxiety
Click HERE to access these CBT worksheets.
Joel Shaul, LCSW