Download: How Interesting Is It kit

A set of social skills learning materials to help teach what conversation topics tend to score “likes” with peers

Children with autism spectrum disorders can find it very difficult to know what to say to their peers.  Children with ASD  tend to fall back on their own preferred topics.

Here are some activities  to increase awareness of various things that other people find interesting to talk about.  The activities employ the thumbs-up “like” symbol, which is very familiar to most children as an indicator of what pleases another person.

This kit includes:

1.  How Interesting Is It?  topic list [fragment shown below].

This is  a list of ninety different conversation topics.  You read them out loud to children so they can rate how interesting they are.

2.  How Interesting Is It? rating sheet   [shown below].

Children move a chip between 0 and 4 based on how interesting they think a particular conversation topic might be for another person.

3.  How Interesting Is It? picture worksheets [examples shown below]

This set of five worksheets is to help children who need more practice.

Some suggested language to use when introducing these activities:

“Who has ever seen the ‘like’ icon on Facebook or other places online?  What does it mean?  It means someone likes something that they see or hear online.  Some things online get lots of  ‘likes’.  Some get few, or none.

When you are talking to other people,  you might also be scoring  ‘likes’  –  in their minds.  Or you might not be scoring ‘likes’ at all.   When you are ‘interesting,’  it is something like scoring  ‘likes’.  When you are not interesting, or boring, you are not scoring  ‘likes’. 

You can get much better at scoring  ‘likes’ in conversation by paying close attention to what you are saying and what the other person might find to be interesting.   Your own words might seem really interesting to your own ears.  Maybe the other person will like your words too.  But, depending on the topic and what the other person finds interesting, your words might not score any  ‘likes’ at all.

Here are some activities to help you get better at scoring  ‘likes’ when you talk. 

1.  How Interesting Is It? rating sheet.  I will read you a number of different conversation topics.  For each one, you have to take a guess on how interesting, on a scale of 0 to 4, it might be to the other person.  Place your chip on the number that you think shows how interesting it is to the other person, not you. [Note to teacher: alter the wording as you read through the list, to clarify and specify as you see fit.]

2.  How Interesting Is It? picture worksheets.   For the Zero sheet, pick out some things from the list that might be uninteresting to most kids – or things that you think of yourself.  Write them down on the sheet and draw small pictures.  For the 1, 2, 3 and 4 sheets, write and draw things that kids your age might find more interesting.”

Note to teacher/therapist:  These activities work best when you add role play practice.  Select a number of topics that would rate a 3 or 4 with most children.  You play the role of the other child in the conversation. Then, assign the children to converse with you on these selected topics.

I hope you find these materials enjoyable and useful.

Joel Shaul, LCSW

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