“How was your day?” sheets. Help for answering end-of-day questions for kids with ASD

Sheets to help children know what to say when adults say, "How was your day?"

Many children, especially children with autism spectrum disorders, have difficulty answering these questions from their parents at the end of the day.  Children might be tired or distracted. They might not grasp the importance of exchanging information about the school day. They may have an impaired sense of what the parent knows or does not know.

I designed these sheets so that:

*Parents can use them as written prompts

*Mental health therapists and speech therapists working with children with autism can use them for guidance and practice for this important aspect of the parent-child relationship.

The first How Was Your Day sheet, showing some ways to answer this question.

This first sheet offers examples, in thematic categories, of useful statements and phrases to use when answering “How was your day” kinds of questions.

Sheet explaining why grown-ups need to ask children about how was their day.

This second page offers a variety of helpful suggestions.

Sheet explaining more ways to answer the "how was your day" question.

The third sheet offers examples of how to use the phrase prompts from page 1.

In my own work with the parents of children on the spectrum, I have gotten a lot of good feedback about the design and utility of these conversation prompts. I hope that you also find them useful.

Joel Shaul, LCSW

For more materials to facilitate conversation between the child and family members, here is another set of free materials: Talk to Family Picture Sheets.

For more practice on asking and responding to “How are you?” questions, here is a cool and fun paper fortune teller on that topic.

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